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Blue Stiley interviews entrepreneur Keith Riddle on building mental endurance through mindset, systems, and long-term discipline.

Why Most Goals Fail (And What Actually Drives Success) with Keith Riddle

This episode of The Blue Stiley Podcast is sponsored by Dubin Law Group—a firm built on gratitude, empathy, and compassion. Founded by Matthew Dubin, Dubin Law Group has been fighting for the rights of injured clients for decades. Learn more at dubinlawoffice.comToday we’re digging into a hard truth: most goals don’t fail because people lack motivation—they fail because the foundation underneath them is broken.My guest is Keith Riddle, a real estate entrepreneur who started in the business while attending Gonzaga University and built a 150-person organization—but today’s conversation goes far beyond real estate.Keith breaks down why goal-setting alone isn’t enough and how his MS4 framework—Mindset, Skillset, Systems, and Standards—became the operating system behind everything he’s built. We talk about the difference between chasing outcomes and building structure, and why systems and standards matter most when motivation fades.If you’ve ever set big goals and wondered why they didn’t stick, this episode will reframe how you think about success. Show Flow00:00 The Problem with Arbitrary Goals00:51 Meet Keith Riddle: Real Estate Entrepreneur01:28 Keith’s Early Real Estate Journey03:21 Balancing College and Real Estate15:04 Lessons from the Farm25:20 Navigating the 2008 Financial Crisis29:21 The Role of Luck and Timing in Success31:11 Instilling Confidence in the Next Generation33:36 The Importance of Mindset and Overcoming Roadblocks35:14 The Power of Repetition and Skill Development42:49 Transitioning from Player to Coach46:30 Creating Systems and Scaling the Business55:23 The MS4 Philosophy: Mindset, Skillset, Systems, and Standards01:00:17 The Role of Coaches and Technicians01:02:42 The Importance of Standards01:04:07 The Power of Mindset01:05:03 The Influence of Mentors and Coaches01:07:09 The Value of Self-Reflection and Journaling01:11:01 Setting and Understanding Personal Goals01:19:39 Recognizing and Addressing Blind Spots01:27:14 Final Thoughts—Catch shorts and full episodes of The Blue Stiley Podcast here:   https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVYhmZsDkCVt9PGcXwjlypwaEBjteb-Ri   📺Listen to The Blue Stiley Podcast while you’re on-the-go!  🎧 Available wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts. New episodes drop every Monday to start your week off right! Apple Podcasts and Spotify & Youtube:—Subscribe to the channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@bluestiley—Follow me here:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bluestileyLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/blue-stiley/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/blue.stileyWebsites: —https://bluestiley.com/https://thesumof4.com/https://darksideforlife.com/—Looking for my book on Amazon? Here it is!https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1950241998/ref=ox_sc_act_title_1?smid=A27LPL7FZJL1FB&psc=1#bluestiley #Thebluestileypodcast #salesadvice #realtortips #entrepreneurmindset

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Blue Stiley interviews Jacey Harder on mindset motivation, resilience, and leading with clarity under pressure.

The Thing You’re Trying to Hide Is Your Superpower with Jacey Harder

Jacey Harder grew up in a small town in Idaho, went on to attend West Point, served in the military, and quietly built a career rooted in leadership, resilience, and high-stakes decision-making. Along the way, she learned how to operate under pressure, adapt fast, and lead when the rules aren’t always clear—skills you might expect from a spy… and from great leaders.In this episode, we talk about the moments that shaped her path—from nearly failing out of West Point to becoming a mentor, mother, and a community builder for the next generation.Her story is a reminder that real leadership isn’t flashy—it’s showing up, pushing past imposter syndrome, and being willing to flip your perspective with the ninja quickness.Show Flow01:04 Early Life and West Point Experience02:24 Challenges and Triumphs at West Point05:52 Building Confidence and Overcoming Imposter Syndrome09:58 Military Career and Leadership Lessons14:00 Transition to Civilian Life and Career Growth19:11 Navigating Government and Policy Influence28:52 Mentorship and Legacy30:37 The Essence of True Leadership31:07 Inspiration from Personal Experiences33:33 The Impact of Mentorship34:48 Balancing Career and Parenthood37:05 Transitioning to a New Identity45:13 Building a Community Through LEGO53:52 The Power of Mentorship and Emotional Intelligence58:57 Final Thoughts and Future Aspirations

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Blue Stiley interviews Stefano Iaboni on mental endurance and using laughter to reduce stress and build resilience at work.

The 60-Second Smile Challenge with Stefano Iaboni

Today’s guest is someone who believes laughter is not just entertainment — it’s a leadership strategy. Stefano Iaboni is an international speaker, corporate trainer, and the man behind Smile Solution, where he helps companies turn stress into smiles and create workplaces that are more creative, connected, and joyful.For years, Stefano has been walking into rooms full of adults who are stressed, guarded, and overwhelmed — and within minutes, he has them laughing, breathing, and actually enjoying being human again.He teaches leaders how to use humor as a tool to build trust, spark innovation, and bring people together. And today, we get to unpack his process, his philosophy, and why he believes play isn’t childish… It’s essential.Show Flow0:00 The Power of Laughter00:53 Introducing Stefano Iaboni02:00 Laughter as a Leadership Strategy02:55 The Science Behind Laughter05:28 Creating a Positive Work Environment09:43 Laughter and Parenting15:34 Embracing Mistakes and Building Confidence29:56 Building Confidence Through Practice30:59 The Power of Humor in Connection32:35 Comedy Beyond Words33:19 Laughter as a Universal Language33:54 Using Humor to Overcome Adversity36:07 Transforming Attitudes with Laughter36:56 The Healing Power of Laughter42:17 Practical Tips for Spreading Joy48:28 Final Thoughts

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Blue Stiley introduces the rebrand from Navigating No to The Blue Stiley Podcast, sharing the vision and mindset motivation behind the next chapter.

Welcome to The Blue Stiley Podcast

Welcome to The Blue Stiley Podcast — formerly Navigating No. In this kickoff episode, Blue shares the heart behind the rebrand, why it was time for a change, and what you can expect moving forward. Same mission. New name. Bigger impact. Hear the vision, the shift, and the invitation to grow alongside a show dedicated to helping you rise above life’s challenges and live with more confidence, purpose, and presence.Show Flow00:48 Big Changes Ahead01:17 Rebranding the Podcast02:19 Challenges with the Old Name04:36 Embracing the Unique Name09:15 Transition to a New Look11:55 Reflecting on Past Episodes13:42 Top Lessons from Navigating No25:19 Starting Small and Growing Big26:21 Rebranding and Expanding the Podcast27:01 Designing the New Logo28:27 Incorporating Personal Branding30:22 Broadening the Podcast’s Scope33:55 Evergreen Content and Guest Stories43:07 Encouraging Listener Engagement48:55 Exciting New BeginningsThe Blue Stiley Podcast is where real people share real stories about pushing past fear, owning their truth, and living life at the next level. Hosted by keynote speaker, author and personal growth expert Blue Stiley, each episode delivers honest conversations and hard-earned lessons to help you grow into who you’re meant to be.

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Blue Stiley interviews modeling agent Mary Wharton on building trust, standing out, and navigating the modeling industry on the Navigating No Podcast.

Most Modeling Agencies Won’t Tell You This (But Mary Wharton Will)

  Mary Wharton didn’t plan on becoming a modeling agent. She was headed toward a career in textile marketing—until a chance internship at Elite Model Mgmt, which introduced her to the world of modeling.That unexpected detour led to a meeting with a former super model, and a future at Locke Model Management, where Mary found

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Blue Stiley interviews Casey Jacox, bestselling author and relationship expert, on vulnerability, trust, and asking for help on the Navigating No Podcast.

This Simple Mindset Shift Changed My Career Forever – Casey Jacox Reveals How

What if asking for help was the bravest thing you could do? Casey Jacox was a college quarterback chasing dreams of glory—until a devastating injury sidelined everything.  Watching teammates thrive while he sat on the bench, he wrestled with envy, shame, and doubt. But when he finally opened up to his coach, he was met

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Blue Stiley interviews Brooke Baker Spink, CEO of Baker Construction, on leadership, empathy, and navigating a male-dominated industry on the Navigating No Podcast.

What Every Woman in Business Should Know with Brooke Baker Spink

Sometimes, the best way to lead isn’t following someone else’s path – but by creating your own. Brooke Baker Spink didn’t grow up dreaming of becoming a CEO in construction. But after returning to the family business, she stepped into a male-dominated industry with no playbook—just grit, the ability to be relatable & a willingness

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