May 2026

Most people spend their lives chasing success, achievement, and identity, believing that once they finally reach the next goal, they’ll feel whole.But eventually, some people wake up and realize the life they built no longer matches the person they’re becoming.Today’s guest is Scott Lackey — Army veteran, Ironman triathlete, entrepreneur, columnist, and author of Wake Up to Die Again. After years of pushing toward success, discipline, and external achievement, Scott found himself confronting deeper questions about purpose, identity, and what actually gives life meaning beyond accomplishment.This conversation is about reinvention, self-awareness, and what happens when success alone is no longer enough.Show Flow00:41 Meet Scott Lackey02:05 Hard Lessons & Highlights06:19 Lightning Strikes!09:48 Facing Fear & Sacrifice14:43 Nobody Will Know16:48 Trust Yourself Again19:28 Direction Over Distance24:48 Subtraction Not Addition30:00 Ask Anyway Make It Happen!35:05 Curiosity With Strangers40:19 Broken Promises To Ironman44:25 The Fiery Middle48:21 Military Vs Ironman Mindset50:39 Get Back Up For Love55:35 Redefining Success And Joy59:21 Writing For One Reader01:05:22 Final ThoughtsGrab a signed copy of Scott’s book here:https://scottlackey.com/Follow Scott on LinkedIn here:https://www.linkedin.com/in/scottlackey1/This episode of The Blue Stiley Podcast is sponsored by Dubin Law Group—a firm built on gratitude, empathy, and compassion. Founded by Matthew Dubin, Dubin Law Group has been fighting for the rights of injured clients for decades. Learn more at dubinlawoffice.comCatch shorts and full episodes of The Blue Stiley Podcast here: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLVYhmZsDkCVt9PGcXwjlypwaEBjteb-Ri Listen to The Blue Stiley Podcast while you’re on-the-go! Available wherever you listen to your favorite podcasts.New episodes drop every Monday to start your week off right! Apple Podcasts, Spotify, and YouTube.Subscribe to the channel here: https://www.youtube.com/@bluestileyFollow me here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bluestileyLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/blue-stiley/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/blue.stiley Blue’s Websites: https://bluestiley.com/ https://thesumof4.com/ https://darksideforlife.com/

Most people think being unforgettable is about talent.But the truth is, it’s the small, intentional differences — the 3–5% edge — that separate the people who get remembered from the ones who get overlooked.Today’s guest is Jason Hewlett, a speaker and entertainer who has built his career around mastering that difference. Through his work on stages around the world, he’s learned how to create connection, stand out in a crowded room, and leave a lasting impact.This conversation is about what it really takes to be memorable — not just in performance, but in how you show up in your work and your life. We get into the idea of the 3–5% edge, why small details matter more than most people think, and how intentionality can change the way people experience you.If you’ve ever wondered why some people stand out while others blend in, this episode breaks it down.Show Flow02:25 Friendtoring and Mentoring06:55 Helping Others Shine11:15 Mentoring Success Stories15:08 Jealousy to Celebration17:56 Unforgettable Signature Moves21:58 ICM – Identify, Clarify & Magnify30:16 Presence as New Currency34:38 Origins of The Promise35:23 Promise Guy Origin36:14 Goals Versus Promises37:24 Resetting With Journaling39:09 Company Promise Examples40:32 Signature Moves Matter43:55 Be Reachable To Book45:58 Stage Nerves And Prep52:44 MC Crisis Save55:48 Chuck Norris Fill In01:00:19 Legacy And Resources01:03:30 Big Stage Perspective01:07:37 Final Thoughts#bluestiley #inspiration #motivation #selfimprovement #motivational